It’s a great story. A 16-year-old girl gets discovered sipping a strawberry shake at Schwab’s pharmacy.
(Actually, it might be a myth within a myth because some people say she wasn’t even at Schwab’s. See how illusions prosper!)
Anyway, that story creates the unhealthy myth association within each actor’s psyche that when they move to L.A. (or N.Y.) they’re going to be “discovered.” And then when a few years go by and that hasn’t happened yet, the actor thinks it’s never going to happen, that they’re doing something wrong, that they’re talentless. And they stop trying.
The reality of a life in show business is that you need to just keep going.
And actually, that’s life. Period.
I was at a restaurant the other night and started talking to this woman, Judy, who sells a new line of tequila. She told me how she’s competing against these larger companies and brands that are more established and that she has to keep hustling and work hard to get her product to different bars.
So you see? You think having to forge forward and overcome obstacles is specific to your life. Or to being an actor? It’s not. All people in all walks of life are faced with the same challenges.
Rejection is part of life no matter who we are, so stop sitting around waiting for someone to discover you. Get out there and start getting rejected. It’s all numbers. That’s how careers are made. Harrison Ford says it best:
“There is no way into acting; it’s impossible. I knew that from the beginning. It’s statistically impossible to make a living as an actor. You have to love it, and even your love for it is not going to make it happen. What is going to make it happen is luck and tenacity. I never made a living until I was 35 years old. I came out here when I was 24. But one thing I knew and recognized was that people all around me were giving up and going home. I just, quietly, never gave up.”
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