5 Steps to Take When You Feel Like You’re Burning Out

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So many actors start out with enthusiasm and courage but get bogged down with the paperwork of marketing themselves—submissions, emails, postcards, social media—and soon discover that the left brain stuff is not as much fun as auditioning and performing.

But it could be.

When you begin to get bored, discouraged, and jaded by your career, you lose those important elements that drive you: excitement and anticipation of success as a working actor on the stage, in film, or on TV.

The fact is that every actor is a self-employed business person, which means every actor also needs to do the sometimes-tedious steps of self-marketing to propel their careers forward. But without the results you expect and hope for, it can be hard to keep going when bookings are few and far between, agents don’t respond, and casting directors never call. The solution? Make if fun!

Here are five things you can do to keep your passion for acting alive, while also having fun with the process. Every step focuses your energy outward so it doesn’t spiral down inside you into depression and hopelessness. It’s time to activate!

1. Visualize
See yourself in one, three, or five years from now. What are you doing? Where do you live? What have you accomplished? Write it all down. Make a vision board with photos of your favorite shows, films, networks, and studios. Keep it in a prominent place in your home, a place you pass multiple times a day. When you see it, smile and say, “yup, that’s where I’ll be soon!”

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2. Connect
Pinpoint where you want to work and the players who create the projects you want to be part of. These are the names of your future employers. Connect with them (respectfully!), and make sure to update your social media and website to include new headshots, roles, clips, and any fun news you want to report so people know what you’re up to. Network so the pros know who you are, even if they’re not reaching out right away. The more energy you put into getting to know and being known by the pros, the closer you are to your goal.

3. Create
The best way to show what you can do and get work is to create your own projects. Write a play, a short film, a standup routine, a web series...whatever speaks to you. Recruit others who share your sensibilities and can fill in the gaps. Join groups, classes, or companies so you’re actively developing, and using your skills regularly. Don’t judge—just have fun in the creation process.

4. Choose
Who in the industry to you adore, admire, respect, and hope to emulate? Watch their work. Follow them on social media. Work with the same teachers. Discover how they developed their career. Learn from what they’ve done and remind yourself that you can have a similar career as you move forward.

5. Relax
As a self-employed business person, it’s easy to constantly go, go, go. But it’s equally important to take time off. Use one day every week to play or do something that has nothing to do with your craft. Go on a hike, take a bike ride, swim, drive somewhere new, pamper yourself, or just hang out with friends without talking about business. Having a rejuvenating day to treat yourself well brings great positive energy.

Remind yourself daily that although you chose a career that's challenging and competitive, it's also fun and it should feel that way!

For more information about her one-on-one coaching programs and to chat with Gwyn about your career, request a free 15-minute career session, contact her at gwyngilliss.com.

Having been selected by major N.Y. and L.A. agents, casting directors and personal managers as the “Foremost Marketing Coach for Actors,” Gwyn was a successful actor herself working in all medias. As an Emmy Award-nominated contract player, she appeared on “All My Children,Guiding Light, As The World Turns, One Life to Live, and others. Gwynalso guest-starred in primetime pilots and TV series. Favorites include: The Lucy Arnaz Show and Woman of Valor (Emmy Award). She appeared on and off-Broadway, and in classical Repertory theater productions, from Shakespeare, Moliere, and Tennessee Williams to Noel Coward. On Broadway, she was in Kaufman and Hart’s The Man Who Came to Dinnerat the Circle in the Square and Joshua Logan’s last play, Trick.

With coaching clients on both coasts and internationally working in all medias, she is the premier role model with winning strategies and first-hand knowledge of the TV, film, and theater industires which she willing shares to help new actors succeed. Gwyn offers actors a complimentary 15-minute career session upon request. You can reach her at info@gwyngilliss.com or check out her coaching programs at gwyngilliss.com.

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Gwyn Gilliss
Having been selected by over 100 east and west coast agents, managers, and casting directors as the “foremost marketing coach for actors,” Gwyn has also had a successful acting career in all medias. She studied at Carnegie Mellon, and was an Emmy Award-nominated Daytime/Primetime TV actress with over a dozen contract and recurring roles. Favorites include: “All My Children” (ABC),“The Lucy Arnaz Show” (CBS), and “Woman of Valor” (NBC, Emmy Award).